What does he want?
It seems obvious that planning a wedding is usually the brides department. But that doesn't mean that you shouldn't take the time to ask your man for his opinion on things. Make sure you include him in on decisions. It will be a great bonding experience for you both. Even if he says that you should plan the whole wedding, I am sure that he actually does have opinions. Find out what his priorities are for the wedding. Are there certain factors that he has always wanted for his wedding? Give him ideas and offer suggestions. That will get him thinking more about what he wants. Talking about it with him will get him excited too!
Be sure to discuss with him what he is thinking in regards to your wedding. Take advantage of the many resources that are out there to help you plan your wedding. Planning your wedding together will become a fun hobby for you both! Men have more of an opinion on things than we may think, so give him a chance to offer input!
If he insists that he does not enjoy wedding planning, make a game out of it! Get creative and put together different pictures or video clips from other weddings. Ask him which wedding he likes better. Seeing visuals can really help him get a clearer vision of what he actually does want for his wedding. Try not to talk his ear off about the wedding. Sometimes if you talk about something too much, it can become a source of irritation for men. Taking the time to ask questions at the right time and get opinions on what your man wants for your wedding, will be well worth it in the end!
Author: Jessica Dennison, Relationship Blogger